Sunday, March 25, 2012

March into April


Highlights from our March discussion on Chapter 3
To start off, we read:

The Better Part 
by Rachael A. Keefe from her book of Lenten reflections, negotiating the shadows, p. 47-49
Show me this path of life
  that leads to fullness of joy
    in the pleasures of your presence.

    I want to sit as Mary sat
    at Your feet
    listening
    hearing
    knowing.

By another's account
  Martha clearly saw
    what others could not
      and recognized You
in her moment of loss and despair.

          How could her everyday distractions
          turn her attention from sitting with You?

          What did it matter
          that her house was not clean
          and dinner was late
          when You walked through her door?
    
      Did she worry about disappointing You
      so much that she forgot You
      accept her—no perfection
          of house, food, or self
          required?

How did Mary know
  to be still
  and listen?

          What did she hear that Martha did not?

          Walk through my door today.
        Call me from my tasks.
        The worries and distractions of my day
     drown out the still small voice of You.

          Pursuing perfection
          demands more than I want to give
          with too great a price.

Show me Your path
to let go of worry and distraction
to know what is needful
and to choose the better part.

Lively discussion ensued, prompted by seemingly high proportion of attendees who identify with Martha in realizing that someone has to do the cleaning and cook the food.
Summary is that we generally approved of Martha's actions, it was her whining we didn't like, and yet we would like a different ending to that story. (Everyone goes the kitchen and helps, for example.) Remembering our visit the Harvard museums exhibit of the house in the time of Jesus made us realize that crowding into the kitchen may not have been an option, though.

Insights about cleaning and de-cluttering
In response to a remark one person made that cleaning didn't help her feel close to God, another shared this insight: "Getting rid of the clutter helps me to feel not so nudgy; it finds the things that get in the way of a relationship with God; so that contributes to my peace of mind, which brings me close to God."

Another said: "When I cleaned in silence, rather than with music or TV or radio on, I found that my thoughts did turn to God more often while I was cleaning, and I became more focused."

Our favorite quote from this chapter:
God is like that, repairing the world all the time. Even though it’s hard for me to see the spiritual value in menial household chores, there’s something deeply Christian about them. In a brilliant book about the theology of housekeeping, Margaret Kim Peterson says that it’s precisely the never-ending nature of household tasks such as cooking that makes them “so akin to the providential work of God.” Every day, every person in the household needs to be fed—again. We feed them with the knowledge that tomorrow morning, they will wake up hungry and we’ll have to repeat the whole cycle.
Peterson says that our constant round of housework and God’s initial act of creation have something in common: both are about bringing order from chaos. But God doesn’t just put our earthly home into motion and let things take their course; he’s constantly playing housekeeper.
Riess, Jana (2011-09-24). Flunking Sainthood: A Year of Breaking the Sabbath, Forgetting to Pray and Still Loving My Neighbor (Kindle Locations 601-607). Paraclete Press. Kindle Edition.


April: Lectio divination

We tried a sample of lectio divina with Matthew 11:28-30,
  • reading (lectio)
  • and then praying about the scripture, (oratio)
  • reading and listening for one line or phrase that caught our hearts and meditating on that line, (meditatio)
  • reading and contemplating how we could make that scripture part of our lives. (contemplatio)

We agreed that during April we would try lectio divina, reading a passage of scripture aloud and meditating on what struck our hearts, praying for more insight and connection, and contemplating how the scripture might move into our lives.

Options for Daily Bible Reading with Audio
Here are some links for audio scripture, so that someone else could read the scripture aloud to you:


Conference of Catholic Bishops Daily reading, and audio of that reading

Daily Audio Bible: Reading the Bible through in a Year (with commentary)

 Our Daily Bread—A Reflection and then a Bible reading

If you want to search for a passage on your own and then hear the audio, try Bible Gateway--it is only by chapter at a time, but good readers.

This is a Lutheran daily reading plan, no audio.


Other Links:

Some of my experiences, exercises and notes about Lectio Divina from the Adult Ed sessions I did several years ago.

The Order of Saint Benedict: Lectio Divina
(Not all of their links work, so I've listed the ones that do below)

The Cloud of Unknowing, chapter 35 (anonymous 14th-century English author).

Armand Nigro, SJ, and John Veltri, SJ, Praying with Scripture.


The Ladder of Four Rungs. 54K text, 140K graphics.



Lectio with poetry or with other readings besides the Bible



Sunday, February 26, 2012

February into March


We started today's session with this poem:
from Prayers for Hope and Comfort:
February
~Ann Kyle-Brown

February is neither here nor there.
Not holiday.
Not beginning of the school year.
Not New Year.
Not end.
Not ever,
"Finally! February is here!"
Never.

February just is.
It's a Tuesday kind of month.
A 10:15 in the morning kind of time
On a Tuesday
When one is 43.
Not 21.
Not 40.
Not celebratory.
Not married.
Not even engaged.
Not expecting a baby or a raise.
No deadlines looming.
No bulbs blooming yet.
Kind of wet,
An intermittent showers kind of time,
A chance of rain.

Not a chance of winning the lottery.
Not a chance of an unexpected trip to Spain.
No, just an "is" kind of time,
A just plain "is" kind of time,
Just plain.

And I wonder …

Because it is February
And there's time to wonder,
Because not tilling or sowing
Or weeding or reaping,
Just enough of sleeping and getting up
And working and going to bed,
To not be reading,
To not be well read,

… how February fits
Into the scheme of things
And how I fit into the scheme of it.
So think of that Great Schemer,
Our Dear Redeemer
And wonder …

… what did Jesus do in February?

The February before being
In the temple at thirteen.
The February before Canaan.
The February before Golgotha.
Or the February after for that matter,
Floating like a specter forever
Over all of us he loves.
What did Jesus do in February?

And it occurs
That maybe that was when He went to the desert.
He surely couldn't have lasted forty days in July.
Even a Son of God couldn't bear these mortal bones
Over the sandy exile of July.

And suddenly I cry,
Watching the rain falling methodic from the sky,
Adding to the gray lapping of the Bay.
For somehow I know that February is the desert and my job
To be busy avoiding temptation
And remembering why
I listen to the voice of God in the fog
And am stronger for it somehow in July.

Comments on fasting:
 
Several in our discussion today said that they thought about fasting from food, but did not. They couldn't quite see the purpose. Some did have some moments of fasting from things or from doing things, and that seemed more positive.

From Sue S.: My fast has not been a food one. I took to heart your suggestion to ask ourselves what habits or activities were getting in the way of our relation to God and what kind of a fast might help us spiritually. I didn't have to think for long. One of the habits I have fallen into that I like the least is playing video games when I think I need or deserve "down time". Sudoku, Solitaire, Spider - to name a few. I decided on a total "fast" from any sort of computer game. As a direct result, I have begun playing the piano again - and have done more reading - two things that are definitely feed the spirit more than video games. I have decided to continue the fast, at least through Lent, and then consider whether to remove all games from computer, IPad and IPhone.

From Nancy W.: I had to "fast" for fasting blood work tests, which meant not eating from 5:30 p.m. to 9:30 a.m., so no evening snack, really. And when my doctor said that I needed to pay attention to my weight, I decided that perhaps I would continue that. What I noticed is how much my evening snacking is emotionally driven. I had a conversation with Nancy M. about how she's been dealing with some of her eating patterns—and those included snacking (or not)! I started reading Women, Food, and God by Geneen Roth. Her central questions: how do we use food as a substitute for what is really important and central? How does food become a substitute for our longings and hopes, for God?

Some people have decided to be mindful during Lent by not eating meat, and some others thought that avoiding snacks or not eating meat seemed a more manageable kind of fast.

We discussed that fasting perhaps should include more prayer and mindfulness, and maybe the community element, is important.

We began a discussion about chapter 3, and decided that perhaps we could use some community support around mindfulness and chores, so we set up three small phone groups who will call one another with reminders and to offer support to clean or do chores mindfully. Contact Nancy W. for more info if you were not at this session, and she'll help you link up.

We closed today's session with this poem:

The Holy in the Ordinary
~Ann Weems

Holy is the time and holy is this place,
  and there are holy things that must be said.

Let us say to one another what our souls whisper …
  O Holy One, cast your tent among us;
  come into our ordinary lives and bless the living!

Forty days stretch before us,
  forty days of hungering after faithfulness,
    forty days of trying to understand the story,
and then, Holy Week …
O God, if every week were holy …

These forty days stretch before us,
  and those of us who believe
    yearn to feel Your presence,
    yearn to be Your people;
  and yet, the days fill with ordinary things
    with no time left
    for seeking the holy.

Spiritual contemplation is all right
  for those who have the time,
  but most of us have to make a living.

Most of us have to live in the real world
  where profanity splashes and blots out
    anything holy.

Where, O Holy One, can  we find You in this unholy mess?
 
  How, O God, can we find the holy in the ordinary?

 
March: Meeting Jesus in the kitchen … or not

We will be meeting in March, whether or not we have met Jesus in the kitchen through cleaning and chores. A doodle poll with choice of dates is going out via email.

If you want to read The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence, here is a free e-book version.
  
My personal library also has these books of essays that I am browsing on this topic:

This seemed like a good bridge book from February's fasting:

In the first essay in this book, Wild Fruit, Patty Kirk writes that she does most of the chores because she likes to. "And, although these responsibilities often pile up and become onerous, gathering and preserving fruit is not just another chore. It is my reward."
"Berry-picking is my year's retreat—my 'thin place,' to use a Celtic Christian term from a book I'm reading for a place where one feels unusually aware of God's nearness. Every aspect of berry-picking has spiritual relevance for me. Nothing proves God's abundant love like the provision of huge blackberries among the brambles, arriving in such profusion that the birds and deer and June bugs and my family and friends and I combined can't begin to deplete them. … When I am picking berries, I am in communion with all creation and with God as at no other time."

What is your "thin place" and can you look for it in the somewhat ordinary places of your life? Can we find it in being mindful about every day chores?




Monday, January 23, 2012

Prep for February: Thinking about fasting as prayer


  • Why fast?
  • Consider other ways to fast or things to fast from besides just types of food.
  • Could you fast from something that gets in the way of your relationship with God, or in the way of your connection to that which is greater than you?
  • How can we support you in the fast you choose?


Types of fasting and prayer (click the links for more info):

Other biblical readings about fasts: 


Resources about Fasting


 


Thomas Ryan explores the uses of fasting for health and as a spiritual practice. In this excerpt on devotion, he suggests ways to fast for those who because of health, age, or life circumstances cannot fast in the traditional sense of abstaining from food and drink. He notes that even for those who are able to fast, these alternate forms can supplement a regular, traditional fast day or replace a day of fast.
He offers these options and more:
Fast with your eyes from TV or video, and reflect more
Fast with your ears from radio or CD's, and listen more to your own heart
Fast with your feet and stop going and going, and offer yourself a daily quiet half-hour
Fast from complaining, and give thanks instead

 


Books about Fasting



 




Monday, January 9, 2012

January 2012 Flunking Sainthood at OCBC

We're reading together:
Flunking Sainthood: A Year of Breaking the Sabbath, Forgetting to Pray, and Still Loving My Neighbor by Jana Riess 


Find out a little more about the author at her blog

My questions for you:

What or who are saints?
What do you believe about saints? 
Are you one? 
Could you be one? 
Do you know one (or more)?

And in preparation:
Musical Reflections on Saints





I Sing a Song of the Saints of God (midi-just music) (video)

For All the Saints (midi-just music) (video)







Other Web Resources: